Assumptions are poisonous

What are we going to be doing for years, is the question most men and women fail to ask before entering into marital or other forms of relationship. It's a pity that many entered into it without first asking what is expected of them, what is expected of their partner, what they are going to get out of it and where they expect to end up. Most relationships started with sweet flavor but often end up with lost savor. I've been seriously wounded in relationships just because I failed or my partner fails to define what kind I'm entering with him or her (applicable to all areas.) You've got to discuss these things and bring it to open. If the relationship you are or about to or will probably enter is not going to end up in marriage, why keep such? The most amazing part of this marital relationship is that, I've seen people said, "She's or he's the will of God" but ended up not getting married to thesame sister or brother. Who is fooling who? Let's face reality and be true to one another. Time is not on our side but the end will justify the means... you can do the best for yourself by asking the brother or the sister where the relationship is heading to or the point of full stop. Another funny part of most relationship is the application of comma. Some thought relationship is just like an essay that you apply comma just because you want to gain more inspiration to continue in the write-up. Checking out will not by any means help you and will rather rendered you indecisive. It's better not to check out at all according to my opinion and theory. Checking out will amount to wasting of time. Why starting what you'll probably not finish. I've done this too in the past. I'm not a saint and an angel on this matter. I just want you to know the truth that, in marital relationship and all other forms of relationship, definition of purpose is very important. Like I used to say that, when the definition of a thing is missing then abuse is inevitable. A lot of young people were all around the corner of the world walking with heart break but yet I've not seen anybody studying hearteorology in order to mend the hearts. Anyway, your emotional break down is a break and not a complete stop. You can continue in the journey through a correct definition of purpose. The question is WHY?

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